5 Decluttering Mistakes Empty Nesters Make
Organization and Action Steps for Empty Nesters
This is an interesting statistic. 97% of people who declutter on their own give up within the first few weeks and gain most of that clutter back. This blog discusses some of the reasons why this happens. And, remember, we cannot assume that our children or grandchildren will want our belongings. The truth is, we all see things differently. And we all value things differently. When decluttering, start small and be specific. Begin with a single drawer or shelf. For more decluttering ideas, check out our Declutter Deck®.
Organization
Our brains try to negotiate out of decluttering because it often feels more comfortable to cling to the known and hang on to things.
When we have solid, concrete guidelines for ourselves, it helps push back on that mind chatter that our brain is trying to make us believe.
Trying to declutter the entire house at once leaves us feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and paralyzed (analysis paralysis) which causes us to stop or give up.
Letting go of an item never means that you don’t remember or appreciate the gesture or the person who gifted it to us.
Photos of items can be a way to preserve memories without hanging onto the physical item. You can even frame the picture if it means that much to you.
Action Steps
Instead of asking if you have worn or used an item in the last year, ask if you have had the opportunity to use or wear it in the last year. The questions are completely different. If you had the opportunity but did not use or wear it, it’s a true sign that it’s time to let the item go.
If you can replace something for less than $20 and in less than 20 minutes, let the item go. This is called the 20-20 Rule. Modify this to work for your goals, finances, and lifestyle.
Set goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time bound (SMART).
Keep the items that truly bring you joy or hold significant memories. Let go of the rest. Repurpose some of those sentimental items that you choose to keep.
Have a clear vision for your space. Set intentions for each room in your home.